God gave Abraham Isaac, fulfilling the promise that many nations would come from him (Joshua 24:3) and Ruth had a son and named him Obed – the grandfather of David who would be a great king (Ruth 4:13-17). My wife and I believe we should give our kids back to God. Now, I’m not talking about sending them back (although all parents have had moments). I’m talking about raising them in the Lord’s ways so they will grow up and serve Him and people all their lives. We must dedicate our children to the Lord and take every opportunity to train them to serve Jesus.
We see several examples of parents doing this in Scripture. Hannah brought her son Samuel and presented him to God (1 Samuel 1:27-28). She had prayed to God for Samuel and when God gave him to her, she gave him back to the Lord. Abraham offered his son Isaac back to the Lord. Isaac was a “miracle baby” since his parents Abraham and Sarah were very old. They didn’t selfishly shield him as their priceless, fragile sole-possession. They offered him back to God. And of course there is Joseph and Mary who brought Jesus to the temple of Jerusalem and presented Him to God (Luke 2:22). When we give the children God gave us back to Him we secure God’s covenant and purpose for their lives.
Giving our children back to God show we love Him more than we love them. Children are a prized possession and parents express that in great ways. So much that sometimes we allow them to replace God – they become first in our lives. Everything begins to revolve around them and can dissolve our relationship with God. Sure children take lots of time and need lots of attention but not so much that it replaces our relationship with God. I’ve seen parents start to compromise things like church attendance, bible study, ministry callings, and areas of service and replace those with their children’s activities. This doesn’t mean your kids cannot be involved in activities. But if those activities are causing you to compromise the areas I mentioned above then you are grossly out of balance. Giving our children back to God shows Him we love Him for Him.
Giving our children back to God really shows God that our children are not our – they belong to Him. We are to be stewards of everything God has given us – especially our relationships. They are a gift, but not so you can do whatever you want with them. We have the privilege to love and train them in the Lord. We should be praying, “God, do with them whatever you please. God, do in me whatever you please.” Since they are God’s, we should be very careful how we treat His possessions.
Ephesians 6:4 says to bring up Children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Dedicating children to the Lord is really not the main issue. Dedicating ourselves to Him is the real issue. When we grow in Christ we can then model and teach them. Godly parents go to church, pray, study the Word, stay married, create a holy home, do away with worldly ambitions, and live righteously. How can we expect them to do this one day if they don’t see us doing it now!